- try your hardest to focus on the positive
- journal about your feelings/struggles 
- exercise (exercising relieves a lot of stress)
- have a friend that you can call up when you need to talk 
- talk to a gender therapist as often as you need to
- if gender therapy is not an option for you, call the Trevor Project Lifeline  
- if you can be, be open with your parents about your feelings
- if you can, book a surgery date even if it’s years in advance (it’s good to have something to look forward to)
- go to concerts (music can get your mind off of negative things)
- wear clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable
- hang out with your friends
- watch positive movies
- do things that have nothing to do with being trans
- talk to other trans people about how you are feeling 
- join trans groups on facebook (if you need links let me know)
- sing, dance, make music, create, draw, sketch, be artistic  
- stay away from drugs, self-harm, self-abuse 

This list will be added to! If anyone has some more suggestions please let me know!!